How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 16:29
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
That's it for today.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Do you want to have an XXX chat?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What are the main issues that have historically and currently divided Republicans and Democrats?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What type of narcissist cheats more and gets pleasure out of hurting you, even if they're married?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Procrastinates a lot.
Why do so many people find Kakashi's character so appealing and inspirational?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What does it mean when we dream about demons, ghosts, monsters, etc.?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
As a Chinese, what disgusts you about the Chinese society today?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What was your experience when trying GHB?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What I need from you?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why do good-looking men date homely women?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
When was the last time you had sex with someone much older than yourself?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
When did you realize that your childhood was not normal?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Ask yourself:
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.